Free Happiness Coaching
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The pursuit of happiness is the most important goal in life. Yet it can seem like the world is out to thwart you. Stuff happens everyday that seems designed to throw you off balance and shatter your peace.
And once you’ve lost your peace of mind, you’ve lost your ability to think calmly and rationally. And that is the emotional equivalent of losing your sight. You just stumble about tripping over stuff that you just didn’t see.
We go through life worrying about 101 different things that turn out to be meaningless. And in doing this we often end up wasting years of our life that we can never get back. Life is really very, very simple… unless we complicate it.
Now I know some people will read this and think ‘yeah right’. I’ll be happy when;
* I have more money.
* I have a Partner or a better Partner.
* I have a job worth working at.
These are objections. I’ve heard them thousands of times. But after 16 years of intense study . I don’t say this glibly. I don’t say this in some touchy, feely, airy, fairy way.
I’ve seen those documentaries on tv about happiness, where you get these people saying
‘let’s all sit around the piano and sing songs and everything will be fine’.
Or ‘let’s all say nice things to each other and skip away happily’.
Or ‘let’s all close our eyes, laugh and smile and then see how much better the world is’.
Honestly that’s not me. I am simply cutting to the very core of the issue.
I’ll tell you this, you don’t know what happiness really is. I have never read, heard or seen anyone, anywhere describe what happiness really is. You might feel it as a warm feeling, but it’s more than that. You might think it is a chemical reaction, but it’s more than that.
There’s three things you should know about me before you judge what I have to say.
First off, I’ve been fortunate to have worked with over 4,000 individuals in many, many different situations. And that has given me a huge database of knowledge on the thoughts people have and the impact they have on their life. When you then add that to my 16 years of intense, focused study and training, formal and otherwise it’s given me a bunch of insights and revelations.
Secondly, my personality is almost reclusive. I’m not the life and soul of the party. I love to be the Observer in the shadows. One of the side effects of this is that I look into situations without getting distracted by the emotional content.
See, what I’ve realized is that most people get so caught up in life that they stumble into painful situations, in the same way that people stumble over objects when they aren’t looking where they are going. Then they are so distracted and consumed by the pain, they can’t see the solution, even when it’s right under their nose.
Emotions distract you from seeing the solution, like the Illusionist distracts you from what he’s really up to. Life is the greatest Illusionist.
Thirdly, I am an intensely curious idealist. Most people go through life never thinking very deeply about anything. Some settle for the first philosophy that makes some sense. Almost daily I rip apart my personal philosophy and re-examine it looking for gaps and contradictions. It is being constantly refined.
In other words, I’m not someone who’s spent three or six months writing a book, two years selling it and will then live off that reputation for twenty years of lucrative speaking engagements. I’m not in this for the money, I’ll share what I discover for free. No strings.
I wrote a book, (actually it’s the first thing I’ll share with you) but I never tried to get it published. I don’t want to spend two years touring around convincing people to buy it. In two years I’ll have a whole new set of ideas and tools to share. And I hate the idea of being a Speaker. I’m a researcher, an explorer of minds. I spend my days trying to satisfy my curiosity about what life is really about and how to live it.
I love to share what I find and I feel obligated to, without any tricks or manipulation. But honestly I don’t care if you take it or not. I’m not unfeeling and I would like the best for you, but I don’t feel your pain and I don’t bleed when you bleed. It’s your life and I have no interest in telling you what you should do.
After exploring thousands of minds, I have discovered that people also have something that is like a Windows Operating Software. I call it the Human Operating System. I’ve been mapping it out over the last few years.
If you’d like to learn some of the stuff I’ve discovered, then fill out your details below. In case you’re wondering I don’t sell or share your email address. I only use it to send you emails relevant to living a happier life.
Just in case you were wondering I won’t send you any spam, sell your email address or in any way abuse your trust.