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How To Stop Worrying And Start Living - For Free
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Which Of These Situations Are Making Your Life - And Your Relationships Harder... Less Rewarding... And Less Meaningful?
1. Have you lost control of your life?
2. Are you trying to please others and losing yourself?
3. Are you so busy that your life is slipping away without ever getting to do the things that you want to do.
4. Are you waiting to be happy?
5. Is your relationship disintegrating... and you don't know why?
6. Are you frustrated because however hard you try things aren't changing for you?
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Ssh. Listen. Can you hear it?
Tick. Tock. From the clock.
A second passes. Then a minute. Now it's an hour.
Another day passes.
Another day just like a hundred that have passed before. And another day of aggravation… irritation... and frustration.
Another day that ends with you no closer to reaching your dreams. Another day where worry stops you from ‘seizing the day’.
Another day of fear and anxiety stifling your potential.
Another day where you are too tired... too stressed... too angry... or too bitter to start or maintain the relationship you really want.
Another day where the pressure and demands on you seem backbreaking.
Another day where you feel as if life is sucking everything from you and giving little back. Another day where you become more and more certain that…
Life just isn’t fair.
Deep down in your gut you know that life shouldn't be like this... yet you can't see how it can be any other way.
Now I don’t know you or anything about your circumstances. You may not experience all of these symptoms, but I’ll bet you feel some of them, some of the time.
So too do 99% of the population. Because these symptoms are a natural side effect of the way we live. But they don't have to be inevitable. Spare a few moments to read this information and I’ll share with you the secret that will help you from getting sucked into this whirlpool of chaos.
It's Not You... It's Not Them... The Problem Is With The System - Yet It's You That's Paying The Price
It might seem that it’s a particular individual - or situation - such as your Boss… your Spouse or Partner… your parents or children that's causing the problems in your life.
But the truth is that this feeling of overwhelming pressure is happening in every home in every country to everyone - just at differing degrees.
And it's sucking all the fun from your life.
It's not going to calm down when you get promoted. It's not going to calm down when you or your Partner is less stressed. It's not going to pass. Because then it will be something new. And something else after that.
We all deal with it – or try to - in our own way. Some lash out. Some block it out of their mind. Others sink into a spiral of despair and depression and give up. Many try to numb the pain with drink, drugs, work, sex, stimulants and distractions.
Yet none of these work.
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Conventional Wisdom Leads To An Insane World
That’s why this general frustration and pressure is showing up in health symptoms. Look at these facts from medical and scientific research…
* 75-90% of visits to primary care physicians are due to stress-related problems including backache, insomnia, anxiety, depression, chest pain, hypertension, and headache.
* Anti-depressants, tranquilizers and anti-anxiety medication account for ¼ of all prescriptions in the U.S each year. * More than half of British workers say they have experienced symptoms of overwork and burn-out in the last six months.
* One third said they had suffered exhaustion, while 26% had lost sleep or been ill from worry about work. * Mental Health Disorders disorders account for four of the top 10 causes of disability in established market economies, such as the US, worldwide. * An estimated 22.1 percent of Americans adults (that's about 44 million) - will suffer from a diagnosable mental disorder in a given year.
* Approximately 18.8 million American adults will suffer from a depressive illness each year. * Approximately 19.1 million American adults ages 18 to 54 in a given year, have an anxiety disorder.
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It's Insane To Suffer...
When Life Can So Easily Be Mastered...
If You Will Only Take The Time To Understand The Dynamics That Make The Difference Between Happiness And Misery.
You can avoid falling into these potential minefields that the rest of the world will just accept as inevitable or ‘bad luck’.
And just so you know, You don't need to sign up to a certain religion - mainstream or cult. Neither do you need to run around with bells on your ankles, recite incantations, cast spells or any other hocus pocus.
In a moment I'll share the key with you.
Let's start by explaining what the problem is. It's this…
Every invention or advance since we started domesticating animals 14,000 years ago has sped up the pace of life.
And ever since, century on century, decade on decade. Year on year. Life has never stopped accelerating.
Today it seems like life flies by faster with every minute that passes.
As you sleep there are advances and developments that are going to effect the way you live your life. As you read this advertisers are plotting how to get your precious attention – and money. And the people in your life are making changes in their lives that will impact on you.
So when you wake tomorrow, you have to play catch up. And each day in your life becomes more and more complex.
You could try to earn more money, work harder, sleep less and be more effective to keep up with these developments. This is what people across the world are doing now in an attempt to get ahead in the ‘rat-race’.
In Japan there’s even the beginnings of a trend… it's called Karoshi (death by overwork).
Nobuo Miuro from Tokyo, is an example. He tried to keep up by working harder. And dropped down dead in the middle of his 17-hour work shift.
The solution isn’t working harder. Nor is it even working smarter. That just puts you in a more competitive race. As the quote says...
'even if you win the rat race... you're still a rat'.
Here's the real problem.
The world – and most of the people in it - doesn’t care about your dreams. It takes no notice of your hopes and fears. It couldn’t care less about nurturing your potential.
All it cares about is what benefits itself. (You can't blame it. Everyone and everything can only look from it's own perspective).
And so it wants you to do it’s bidding. It wants to take all it can from you… for as long as it can. To make itself stronger and more powerful. And then it will move on. To some other poor sucker. You see every leader of a tribe or group... sees itself like the Queen Bee It wants all the worker Bees to graft away to make itself more powerful Every politician... every employer... and every religious leader gets their position, power and authority from the group And so their concern is for the good of the group Not you as an individual. They'll act for the greatest good for the greatest number They don't care about you They'll have you grafting away for the good of the group (and their position). And if you dare to question them, they'll tell you that you're being selfish Or they'll call you bad Or they'll point out some other poor individual who's in an even worse position than you.
When There's Enough Money In The World For Every Man, Woman And Child Alive To Be A Millionaire... Why Are So Many Still Starving To Death?
Did you know that there is enough money in the world for every single person in the whole world to be a millionaire?
Yet still people are starving and struggling. So if keeping your head down, working hard and leaving decisions to our leaders - elected and unelected - was going to solve all our problems they'd have been solved.
But that's not going to work. And do you know what?
You might have enough food. You might have a comfortable home and life.
But I'll bet that inside you're starving. Inside you're craving more excitement... more passion... more success... more fulfillment.... more joy... more peace of mind... more love... more respect... more confidence... more freedom... and more happiness.
And if you don't take your life by the scruff of the neck right now... you'll starve emotionally for the rest of your life.
While you allow others to set out the rules for your life... while you allow others to dictate what you do and don't do in your life... you will never get close to experiencing life... the way that you really crave to feel it.
You'll never experience goose bumps... just from the sheer, ecstatic, exhilaration of being truly, fully alive.
And that's what I am here for.
I'm your personal advocate. I'm not here to make your employer richer. I'm not here to make your country more powerful. I'm not here to push a certain religious dogma. I'm not here to advocate anything...
except that you stop allowing the world to push you around.
This is your wake up call. It's time for you and I to work together to get your life by the scruff of the neck and start forming it the way you want it to be. Right now. No more ifs, ands, buts and maybe's.
Nothing else is going to change until you decide to take complete control of your life.
And if you go through life without understanding these principles you'll be missing out. It's like pedalling a bike with the brakes on. I don't need to tell you... you know how draining the endless conflicts, niggles and frustrations are.
You see everyone else in your life has some level of emotional involvement with you. And so they may honestly want the best for you... but it's impossible for them not to be blinded by their own hopes and dreams.
I love my kids dearly and genuinely want the best for them. But already I have ideas about what I think is best for them. So even without intentionally wanting to... as they grow up, I'll be influencing them to do the things that I think will be best for them.
And I can't know what is really for their best.
In the same way the people in your life are blinded by what they think is for your best interests. And some just blatantly want their own best interests.
Once you understand the principles and insights I have to share with you you'll know how to be in complete control of your life. And yet strange as it may seem you'll have more to share with others.
You see once you are in a balanced, sound and peaceful state... you'll have so much more to give others.
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The Key To Peace Of Mind... Happiness And Meaning In Your Life
I promised you the key to gaining control over your life and peace of mind. Here it is...
The secret is that conventional wisdom is flawed. It has unexplained gaps in it. You see these gaps when someone, shrugs their shoulders and refers to a 'mysterious' answer. Or when people say any of these things;
"Please God"
"If I’m lucky"
"I hope"
"Maybe"
"With a bit of luck"
"There’s a chance"
"If only"
"It’s just one of those things"
What they really mean is...
"I haven’t a clue what I’m doing. I’m living my life as if it were a lottery. I’ll take a ticket and leave it to blind chance that it’ll work out."
And it's because of these gaps that so many 'good' people suffer - even though they don't deserve to.
The world isn't fair. It never has been. And however many people beg and plead it to be... it never will be.
The fact is, if you believe what most people believe… you’ve got a ticket in the lottery of life. There’s a one in a million chance that you’ll get what you want... but it’s much more likely you’ll end up stressed, tired and bitter.
Yet it could be so different.
Once you understand that everything has an order a set of immutable laws that it works by. For example, there is an order behind the mechanics of your car… your computer… and the weather.
If your car breaks down, you go to a mechanic who understands the dynamics that determine whether your car works or not and how well it performs.
If your computer breaks down, you go to a computer engineer who understands the dynamics that determine whether your computer works or not and how well it performs.
If you want to predict the weather, you watch forecasts from Meteorologists who understand some of the dynamics that determine what the weather will be like.
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Learning The Secrets To Living A Happy And Meaningful Life Is Like Having The Keys To The Universe's Toy Cupboard
And now you could learn the dynamics that determine whether your life will result in happiness and meaning or misery and boredom. These dynamics will all be explained in The 32 Building Blocks of Happiness Training Program.
You might only be missing 1 or 2 of these blocks, but that is enough to stop you from getting all the happiness you should be enjoying. Put them all together and your life and relationships run smoothly. You feel relaxed, calm, in control and passionate about your life.
Once you understand and use these building blocks you’ll walk through life with a inner peace of mind, security and confidence that will lead you to become happier, more effective and experience more meaning in your life.
What I’m talking about is living your life without fear… without doubt… without worries… without guilt… without having to change who you are to fit in with someone else’s idea of who you should be.
I’m talking about the freedom to be who you want to be. To do what you want to do. To have all that you want to have. The freedom to be loved as you are… and for what you are.
I’m talking about waking up in the morning and looking forward to what you have to do. Looking forward to interacting with the people you will meet. Looking forward and believing that the day will go well.
Right now this may seem hard to believe. But once you understand the underlying dynamics that determine whether you will live with passion and purpose or futility and insecurity... it will be fully under your control.
Unless, you understand the critical concepts in The 32 Building Blocks of Happiness...
* You’ll never reach your full potential in any area in your life. * You'll forever be bounced around emotionally by the world and the people in it. * Your relationships will never be as fulfilling and rewarding as they could be. * There will always be some simmering doubt, anxiety, fear, frustration, anger or bitterness in the back of your mind.
These concepts form the order behind what it takes to live a life of futility… or one of meaning.
* They make the difference between purposefully living your life at full throttle doing what you love or forever cowering in life sapping, soul-destroying jobs.
* Between a passionate, set your heart on fire, warts and all love or a comfortable and safe, but dull relationship.
* Between walking into a room and mesmerizing others with the wisdom and power of your message or shuffling in a group mumbling words that no-one listens to.
* Between despairing of your rebellious teens to knowing what they are rebelling against, why and how to respond.
* Between tearing your hair out in despair, confusion and indecision or acting confidently and decisively.
I could go on and on. But let me tell you this. However powerful these benefits may seem to be… they pale in comparison with this one.
It doesn't matter whether you believe in an afterlife or not. Because ultimately everything - now and if there is a later - depends on how you live your life now.
All that you are... everything you ever do... everything anyone thinks about you... everything about you... depends on the decisions and actions you take in the seventy, eighty or ninety years of your life. Here and now.
Now if I’ve explained this clearly enough, you’re probably wondering how much it’s going to cost and will it live up to my promise.
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What Does It Cost?
People always worry about the cost of something new. We live in an economic world where everything has a value and a price. And our financial health depends on making these decisions wisely. So I'll talk in purely financial terms to help you make a decision. bullet How many opportunities are you losing out on by not knowing these critical life principles? bullet How many mistakes is it causing you to make? bullet And when these mistakes make you unhappy how much are you losing in productivity? bullet How much of you're money is being drained in these behaviors because you need to pick yourself up emotionally? bullet Comfort eating? bullet Shopping when you feel down? bullet Drinking after a row or a hard day? bullet Buying others gifts when you feel guilty? bullet Or even just trying to make them happy? bullet So how much does this cost you? bullet And do any of these strategies work for more than a few hours?
When you look at it like that... buying this book... and learning how to master your life... is probably going to save you lots of money.
Even beyond this though. It will open you up to more opportunities.
If you came even close to reaching your full potential... how much more money do you think you'd have?
Once we clear your mind of all the clutter that is slowing you down and holding you back... you'd happily pay ten times more than this book costs.
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Up till now you had to pay $20 to read it, but I recently went through a crisis of conscience and realized that people were missing out on valuable information.
So as a trial I am making The 32 Building Blocks of Happiness Book available as for free to read online with an ongoing follow up coaching program.
All you need to do is sign up below and click the confirmation link in the email you'll be sent and you'll then be directed to the book.
If you really don't want to leave your email, that's fine. You can go straight to the book by clicking here, but you'll be missing out on the follow up material - which is also free.
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