http://coachingtohappiness.com/low-hanging-fruit.html Finding Simple Truths In A Confusing And Complex World. Sat, 04 Feb 2012 13:03:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://coachingtohappiness.com/low-hanging-fruit.html#comment-196 foroozan Wed, 25 Mar 2009 05:07:01 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/01/10/low-hanging-fruit/#comment-196 i need more time, should think more and find out what i want and what should i do. i need more time, should think more and find out what i want and what should i do.

]]> http://coachingtohappiness.com/low-hanging-fruit.html#comment-195 Rachel Thu, 22 Jan 2009 22:04:54 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/01/10/low-hanging-fruit/#comment-195 I must have been very tired when I wrote the above statement. I tend to stay up late and respond when i shouldnt respond. Your right I reread what i said I did sound stupid. anyways what i was trying to say is one of my co-workers insulted me and I was layed off from the job because onwer got complaints about me. The complaints were I was she didnt talk to me so i dont like her I was busy and was in anouther room I am shy so for me to start conversations is not my nature so some of the men in the company didnt like me because I didnt go talk to them and try to get to know them. I was layed off due to me not being friends with everyone which is stupid. I always put more than 100% percent into any position I held but I really didnt care to lose the job they didnt pay enough for me being office manager. I must have been very tired when I wrote the above statement. I tend to stay up late and respond when i shouldnt respond. Your right I reread what i said I did sound stupid. anyways what i was trying to say is one of my co-workers insulted me and I was layed off from the job because onwer got complaints about me. The complaints were I was she didnt talk to me so i dont like her I was busy and was in anouther room I am shy so for me to start conversations is not my nature so some of the men in the company didnt like me because I didnt go talk to them and try to get to know them. I was layed off due to me not being friends with everyone which is stupid. I always put more than 100% percent into any position I held but I really didnt care to lose the job they didnt pay enough for me being office manager.

]]> http://coachingtohappiness.com/low-hanging-fruit.html#comment-194 Debbie Thu, 22 Jan 2009 15:23:38 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/01/10/low-hanging-fruit/#comment-194 Rachel, There are two sides to every story and I believe in due process. Here is a hint, however...........proofread, or ask someone to do it for you. Rachel,
There are two sides to every story and I believe in due process. Here is a hint, however………..proofread, or ask someone to do it for you.

]]> http://coachingtohappiness.com/low-hanging-fruit.html#comment-193 Kate Nash Fri, 02 Jan 2009 09:58:52 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/01/10/low-hanging-fruit/#comment-193 It felt like it was an instantaneous shift in me when one day to my surprise I was extremely nice on the phone with one of those phone operators in a large company who was dealing with a concern of mine regarding their product. Instead of taking what she said to heart, or personally, my insides did a kind of flip and I heard myself saying to her " You've been really helpful and I appreciate your time today." The tone in her voice was different when she heard me say this. She softened and I felt a huge surge of satisfaction in myself! For me the key is to not take it personally. I then can stay true to how I really want to handle the situation - what suits me best? Then I make sure I deliver my communication with a loving attitude, as this really tickles me when I manage to do that!! It felt like it was an instantaneous shift in me when one day to my surprise I was extremely nice on the phone with one of those phone operators in a large company who was dealing with a concern of mine regarding their product. Instead of taking what she said to heart, or personally, my insides did a kind of flip and I heard myself saying to her " You've been really helpful and I appreciate your time today." The tone in her voice was different when she heard me say this. She softened and I felt a huge surge of satisfaction in myself! For me the key is to not take it personally. I then can stay true to how I really want to handle the situation – what suits me best? Then I make sure I deliver my communication with a loving attitude, as this really tickles me when I manage to do that!!

]]> http://coachingtohappiness.com/low-hanging-fruit.html#comment-191 Pat (in Belgium) Thu, 04 Dec 2008 10:28:04 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/01/10/low-hanging-fruit/#comment-191 This makes me think of something the Dalai Lama said in conversation with artist/ musician Laurie Anderson: "Your worst enemies are your best friends because they teach you things." Too true, but I find it particularly hard when the "learning experience" comes from an "apparently random" act by a stranger -- not an acquaintance, colleague, friend or family member. This makes me think of something the Dalai Lama said in conversation with artist/ musician Laurie Anderson: "Your worst enemies are your best friends because they teach you things."
Too true, but I find it particularly hard when the "learning experience" comes from an "apparently random" act by a stranger — not an acquaintance, colleague, friend or family member.

]]> http://coachingtohappiness.com/low-hanging-fruit.html#comment-192 Yorker Wed, 19 Nov 2008 01:33:10 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/01/10/low-hanging-fruit/#comment-192 I appreciate your text on this. I'm attracted to someone who is difficult and i will never understand properly. This makes things very hard as i don't just want to move on to other people, yet, rather try to get to know him better, which is not easy, at all. It does question my self-confidence a lot. Also, for this reason i have learned that i need to be happy with what i am, and cannot base my happiness to other people, as i'd just be on a roller-coaster-ride all the time. I can only give freedom - I appreciate your text on this. I'm attracted to someone who is difficult and i will never understand properly. This makes things very hard as i don't just want to move on to other people, yet, rather try to get to know him better, which is not easy, at all. It does question my self-confidence a lot. Also, for this reason i have learned that i need to be happy with what i am, and cannot base my happiness to other people, as i'd just be on a roller-coaster-ride all the time. I can only give freedom -

]]> http://coachingtohappiness.com/low-hanging-fruit.html#comment-190 Rachel Tue, 03 Jun 2008 03:04:22 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/01/10/low-hanging-fruit/#comment-190 I so know what you mean their are books published addressing this subject on ' How to deal with difficult people" well I do ok but Im thinking get lost annoying one is in my mind at the time of thir annoyance. I have had a co-orkr actually call me stupid which Im not but he was being a jerk of course in the long-run I got layed off for saying anything to the boss because of his insult I lose my job how just is that to lose ones job? I so know what you mean their are books published addressing this subject on ‘ How to deal with difficult people” well I do ok but Im thinking get lost annoying one is in my mind at the time of thir annoyance. I have had a co-orkr actually call me stupid which Im not but he was being a jerk of course in the long-run I got layed off for saying anything to the boss because of his insult I lose my job how just is that to lose ones job?

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