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Living And Coping With Regret

July 16, 2009

Part Two of my response to Brian’s question deals with the issue of living with regret. What has taken hold, is that I’ve become sure I will always be sad about losing the family we had and how it’s taken so much from kids. I can’t imagine in any new life, not feeling the weight [...]

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The Six Steps To Achieve Enlightenment

July 5, 2009

After the last post asking which choice is the authentic you, Brian left this comment; “When you give yourself wholeheartedly to what you truly believe, the world forms around that giving you everything you truly need and want”. Rob first what does it look like to “give yourself wholeheartedly” to what you believe? And second, [...]

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Personal Development vs Following Your Bliss

May 21, 2009

Let me come right out and say it.  Personal development is a flawed idea.  

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Why Compassion And Depression Don’t Mix

April 27, 2009

I’m the first to admit that I’m not the most empathic person.  And I understand that there is a place for empathy and compassion.  In one sense, I’m very compassionate.  I care very much that everyone I come into contact with, gets the most from their life.

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Depression Is A Natural Response To The World

April 23, 2009

James and Joe were making a pilgramage to worship a small town on the other side of the mountain.  Joe was leaving three days before James.  They said their goodbyes and arranged to meet at the hotel they were staying in.  

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The Secret Behind Stress And Depression

April 13, 2009

People often get enamoured of techniques and secret formula’s to get what they want.  So you have all these diet books and relationship strategies and philosophies.  But the fact is there is one secret to getting what you want.  It is the universal secret to life.

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Did I Make A Mistake?

April 2, 2009

I’ve been thinking about the Stress Reduction Challenge based on some emails and responses I’ve had.  And I think maybe I made a mistake.  Actually a couple of mistakes.

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Follow Your Bliss

March 12, 2009

I’m supposed to be getting on with the 30 day challenge, but I have had three questions in the last few days, that are all screaming for the same answer so I had to write this post.   I’ll summarise the questions; How do you keep enthusiastic when the world grinds you down? I can [...]

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The Stress Reduction Challenge

March 11, 2009

Over the last couple of posts, I have talked about selling my time and knowledge.  Yet this post is going to delay that happening.  It might seem strange timing, but this is something I have wanted to do for some time and now seems to be the perfect time.  I will explain all now.

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You Can’t Quit

January 16, 2009

Recently talking about stress management training I made the point that it doesn’t matter how hard it seems, you can’t live a happy life without taking the time to develop your ability to deal with stress.  You just don’t have the choice. Today something has inspired me to revisit that topic, but to emphasis it [...]

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