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Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

August 15, 2007

Question   Thank you so much for providing the reading material,which I’ve been receiving over the last few weeks. The content has made mere-evaluate my life by assessing the areas where I’m most unhappy. I’d like totake you up on the offer of submitting a question I have. Your opinion would mean a lot to [...]

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Question: How Can I Be Happy When I’m Persecuted?

July 19, 2007

I was a happy person. I have aids in 1991. I am happy still until I start to paint that came out on news paper than I got a wife. She is a nurse working in cdc. We got married nobody knows we were very loving until some of the stuff working in cdc knows. [...]

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Question: How Can I Be Happy When My Boyfriend Won’t Commit?

July 19, 2007

I am with a man for over 3 years and we love one another, the only thing is he is still married but has been separated for 4 years. I was married too but I am divorced, the big problem is … I live in his home (which he wanted me to be), and I [...]

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Question: How Can I Be Happy When I Feel So Negative?

July 19, 2007

Just wanted to say great article. I would love to purchase your book and utilize the course to the fullest, as I feel much change is needed in my outlook. For the time being, however, I am a full time student struggling to graduate. Your ideas on sorting out memories and thoughts is very interesting [...]

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The Craving For Fame

July 19, 2007

The truest quote I’ve ever heard is; “No one has ever loved anyone the way everyone wants to be loved.”Mignon McLaughlin Each of us desperately wants to be seen as special. We want people to understand what we are saying and be impressed by the logic and power of what we say. Most of the [...]

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Why Money Won’t Make You Happy

July 19, 2007

Generally people believe money will make them happier, despitePsychological research showing overwhelmingly – time and time again – that it doesn’t. Take a five or ten pound note and tell me what is in that will make you happy. Of course, it is not money itself, but what it can do for you. So really [...]

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If You Want To Be Happy For The Rest Of Your Life, Here’s What To Do…

July 19, 2007

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life this post will tell you the secret. First, just take a moment to picture yourself living in the Stone Age. Imagine sitting in the freezing cold of your damp, dingy Cave. Your belly aches from hunger. And as you sit there your mind [...]

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What Is It That Makes The Difference?

July 19, 2007

The difference between happiness and misery, between effectiveness and wasted effort, between anger and tolerance, all amounts to differences in attitude and personality. George Vaillant’s study found that some people acted in a way that helped them get long with others. That made the best out of situations. And they plotted the course through life [...]

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The Double-Edged Sword Of Being A Sex Symbol

July 19, 2007

Most people segregate people that they are interested in sexually into various levels. They say he is too attractive for me or she isn’t up to my standard. Generally we match up with someone of equivalent attractiveness. And as most people aren’t up there with George Clooney or Cameron Diaz in the top league, there [...]

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Why do some people die happy, while others look back and see nothing but misery, bitterness and hardship?

July 19, 2007

George Vaillant, a Harvard Professor was interested in just these questions and over a 40 year study analysed Harvard Graduates. He detailed his findings in a book called ‘Adaptation to Life’. What most interested me about this study was this…Vaillant found that 5% of the people in the study were what Psychologist’s call optimally adjusted [...]

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